Sponsoring a new member challenges us to continue working our own program.
I've been contemplating sponsorship's role. Yes, I'm helping someone work the program. Yes, I'm giving back. But something more profound occurs—something benefiting me as much as the sponsored individual.
Sponsoring challenges me to continually work my own program. Each question asked prompts self-examination. Every Step they work reviews my own journey. Their struggles remind me of principles I might have neglected. Sponsorship isn't just giving; it's significant accountability.
When my sponsee asks how I practice Step Ten daily, I must honestly assess my actions. When she shares boundary difficulties, I confront my own. When he questions prayer's efficacy, I examine my prayer life. Sponsorship keeps me honest, grounded in my recovery.
This highlights the genius of Step Twelve. Service isn't separate from personal recovery; it is integral. I don't work my program then serve. The serving is how I work my program. Sponsorship challenges me to embody the principles I suggest to others, reinforcing my own commitment to growth and well-being.
Acknowledge struggles with your sponsee. Their question strengthens your practice. Engage with their growth, and yours.
Today’s Reminder
Sponsorship holds me accountable to my own recovery.
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Curated by members of the Al-Anon community for Daily Growth, LLC. Grounded in the Twelve Steps and the contemplative tradition of Al-Anon.